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An Open Thank You Letter to Hillary Clinton 

11/14/2016

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Dear Secretary Clinton: 
 
Today, my second-grade son Caleb assumed the presidency of his class and gave his official acceptance speech. He’s been practicing this speech since the day I arrived home from Philadelphia where I was one of your Texas delegates. His campaign theme was “Stronger Together.” 
 
After looking at the many souvenirs I brought home from the convention, he disappeared in the restroom and returned later with a self-recorded video espousing the values on the strength of America’s collective diversity. (It’s a pretty awesome speech. I’d love to show it to you sometime.)
 
Caleb was a fan of yours and rooted with me for a successful presidential bid.
However, that wasn’t always the case. 
 
Last year, when he discovered I was supporting you, he asked why I wasn’t supporting another Black man for president.  To him, his twin brother and our other 11-year-old son, having a Black president was the norm and they knew there was another African American man in the race. I explained that I was casting my lot with a candidate whose decades of experience and commitment to human rights just happened to be in the form of a woman. 
 
“Can a girl be president,” he asked? 
“Mommy is a girl. Do you think I could be president?” I followed. 
“Of course,” he exclaimed. 
“Then so can she,” I stated. 
 
From that moment, he and his brothers followed the campaign until the end falling asleep with half-colored electoral maps last Tuesday night. 
 
When they awoke last Wednesday, they were greeted by their father who explained that I was still in bed and couldn’t take them to school. I was curled in a ball crying unwilling to face the day. I kissed them goodbye, gave a few words of comfort, and sent them on their way. 
 
Caleb stayed back a little and asked, “What will Hillary Clinton do now?” 
“I don't know. But, whatever she does, it will be great,” I responded. 
 
After forcing myself to move through the rest of the week, Caleb reminded me that his acceptance speech and reception was today. So, I went out and bought patriotic-themed cupcakes and he signed autographs on red and blue cards with tiny American flags to distribute to his classmates.

As he practiced his speech, I could hear the “Stronger Together” sentiment was still there. 
 
Then it hit me that I was right you doing something great in the future. You've taught the next generation to dream BIG. And, you've encouraged the rest of us to keep believing. That's some major greatness in itself.

Thank you for an amazing journey these last 18 months. 

And, thank you in advance for what your candidacy will do for my son's future. 

Sincerely,
Caleb's Mom

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Day 8 - Thanksgiving Month

11/8/2016

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Today, I'm thankful for Democracy.
I'm grateful to live in a nation where leadership is not a birthright. American leadership is given to those earn the most votes from our citizens. Our leadership is bestowed through democracy.
Democracy is voting in 16 general elections and never once being afraid to cast my ballot.
Democracy is the exhilaration of victory in the races in which I've expended my heart and energy to see my candidates win.
Democracy is the bitter taste of defeat in elections where my side didn't prevail and I accept the results with humility.
Democracy is the evolution of laws in our nation to recognize and protect those who were originally forgotten in "We The People."
Democracy is the coming together of Americans from all ethnicities and ideologies to choose a set of national, state and local leaders AND respecting the outcome.
Democracy is not a call to arms when our candidates lose.
Democracy is accepting the choices of our collective citizens, even the ones with which we disagree.
Democracy is living in a nation two young Black girls "wake up every morning in a house built by slaves" and walk down the hall to greet their father who just happens to be the President of the United States.
Democracy is preparing myself to respect Mr. or Madame President tomorrow and throughout the tenure of their presidency - and praying my fellow Americans do the same.
Democracy is the bedrock of our nation and I'm grateful for it.
#Day8 #ThanksgivingMonth
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Day 6 - Thanksgiving Month

11/6/2016

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Today, I'm thankful for Sunday afternoons. I spent my childhood and a lot of my early adulthood at home with my parents on Sundays between church services.
With very few exceptions, my mother cooked every Saturday night so we came home to a hot meal on Sundays. I remember my Daddy teaching me about football one afternoon. I can hear my brother telling us to come watch two young sisters from Compton in a tennis match. I remember candidates eating at our table trying to convince my mom to choose them over their opponents. Preachers, friends, and countless classmates from SwCC all dined with us on Sundays.
We rarely took naps. We spent the time talking, laughing, or strategizing.
As a Christian, Sunday is a revered day. As a Wyrick, it was a special, sacred day the four of us shared together.
I've tried to recreate that magical Sunday afternoon experience for my sons as well. We don't entertain preachers and politicians, but we entertain each other. Today, we did it over a meal I prepared last night while watching the Cowboys win.
Yep. I love Sunday afternoons.
#Day6 #ThanksgivingMonth
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Day 4 - Thanksgiving Month

11/4/2016

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​Today, I am thankful for HOPE.
This is one of several pictures Caleb has drawn of himself as the President of the United States. He believes that he can hold the highest office in the land.
Him. Caleb Cathey. A little boy born in Dallas, raised in Oak Cliff in home of modest means by middle class parents.
That little boy can see himself becoming the leader of free world.
On this day in 2008, America elected its first Black President. Regardless of your political preferences, the election of Barack Obama was significant in the ongoing evolution of our nation. His election represented the HOPE that our country was finally recognizing what little Black boys had always known – that they were as equipped and capable of holding any job as their non-Black counterparts, even the highest office in the land.
It’s not that our sons haven’t always dreamed of being President. It’s that some of our well-meaning friends of other races didn’t think our sons could be President. This is not criticism, just a simple truth. They had not known it could be because they likely had never hoped for such in the same way Black parents had hoped silently that our day their sons could lead the nation.
Then in 2008, Barack Obama began shouting our silent prayers across the land, “Yes, we can! Yes, we can!”
So, that Tuesday, November 4, we watched as America checked its past at the door and walked into the voting booth to choose someone with leadership, intelligence and character for President of the United States. This time, those traits just happened to be cloaked in the skin of a Black man.
I also know there is a daughter somewhere whose parents are as #hopeful as I am that she will prove that she can lead as well as boys can.
So, when this picture below is captured in real time decades into the future, my prayer is to be sitting there with my family and friends smiling through tears as I remember how far HOPE has brought us.
#Day4 #ThanksgivingMonth #Hope
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Day 2 - Thanksgiving Month

11/2/2016

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Today, I'm thankful for these two words: Game Seven.
I'm watching Game Seven of the World Series with my family just like I watched Game Seven of the NBA Finals four months ago. Even when we don't have a team in the hunt, sports is fun. You cheer. You laugh. Sometimes you cry.
Sports has even been a great unifier in our society. Sports has shaped many opinions in Civil Rights, Title IX, and other important moments in our country.
So, yeah: sports! 
And Game Seven: even better!

#ThanksgivingMonth
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    Who's Shay?

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    Shay is a married, working mother of three boys whose interests range from politics to sports to cupcake tasting to classic television. She's seen every episode of "Friends" and "A Different World" and searches for "Law & Order" whenever she has the remote. Insightful and perplexed, Shay writes when her heart is full. Some are based on her Christian faith; others on her whimsical observations of life. The power of the pen gives her peace keeping her grounded in a challenging, overwhelming yet fulfilling world. All writings have copyright protection. Writings from a previous blog are being combined into this one.

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